Once Upon A Rino with Dreadlocks...

Love is a many splendid thing. Okay, now that we've got that out of the way, here's my issue... I have seen dozens of relationships fail because people are trying to force situations or feelings upon another person. I've seen so many people desperate to find someone else... so desperate that they force things. Now, I'm a very laid back type of person, so naturally it is easy for me to tell you to "go with the flow", so to speak. This has been something that honestly has driven me crazy for as long as I can remember and I don't understand how no one else is bothered by it. I am a strong believer in love, don't get me wrong. Commitment scares the hell out of me, but I truly can say that I do believe in love. I don't necessarily think that all you need is love, but hey, that's a story for another day.

I understand that some people go out LOOKING for a relationship, but I've always believed that the best ones come when you're not looking. The strongest and most rewarding relationships, in my case have always been when I haven't been expecting it. I really detest when someone walks up to me and says something like, "Hey, do you know any guys that would be interested in going out with me?", I don't really understand why I can't stand it, but it's just always been like that. I just hate watching people try to force something that just isn't there, and it makes the situation awkward and uncomfortable. True love finds you, and it's not a matter of whether you're ready for it or whether you want it to be there, it just happens. Many people who I know personally, are so busy looking for someone to be their girlfriend/boyfriend that they forget everything else. They forget their goals, their beliefs, even their friends... I hate when people neglect the good that they have in their life to try and chase after something that they want out of greed. Once you realize that you can establish your own life without having to BE with someone else, then you CAN actually be with someone else.

I know this blog post isn't exactly spectacular as far as grammar is concerned... or format... or pretty much anything. This is basically just me trying to get back into the swing of writing on here. I just have some stuff on my mind that I need to get out, and sometimes, I forget that what I write needs to have a bit of structure. I do appreciate all the readers... (all 2 of them *COUGH* what?). 


"If I'm going to sing like someone else, then I don't need to sing at all." - Billie Holiday